It doesn't matter what setting you choose, you can be
home in bed or parked on your town's main street, just
find whatever level of privacy you need to feel relaxed.
For the purpose of this lesson let's say you're still
on the bed where you were examining him and you managed
to get his cock hard. Kneel down between his legs and
take his balls in your left hand and his cock in your
right. Squeeze his cock gently down toward the bottom
of the shaft and get ready to suck. Run your tongue
over your lips to get them good and wet and look into
his eyes. Men love to watch their cock disappearing
into a woman.
Now open your mouth just slightly
to tease and excite him and come very close to his cock.
Breathe on him, blow on him with your hot breath. Stick
your tongue out again and reach for him, tease him.
Making sure your tongue is dripping wet, begin at the
bottom of his shaft and lick upwards, slowly. Turn your
head sideways and pretend to take a bite of him, gently
setting your teeth into his flesh. Wet him again with
your tongue, use your hand to spread the liquid around.
A wet cock looks and sounds a lot sexier than a dry
one. Your left-hand meanwhile is massaging his balls,
perhaps scratching them lightly with your fingernails.
After you've licked his shaft lots of times and it's
all wet and hard, he's going to start squirming with
frustration if you don't start getting serious. A quick
look up at his face will let you know when you're stretching
things out too long. Teasing is great . . . to a point.
A little experience in cock-sucking will teach you when
you need to go on to better things.
On one of your upward swings with
your tongue, from the base of his shaft to the rim of
his knob, don't stop. Continue your long, wet lick up
over the head of his cock, lingering at the hole in
the center. Stick your tongue into it, but don't suck
the head yet. Now run your tongue all the way around
the rim of his knob several times, lingering to work
on that sensitive spot on the bottom each time. Ask
questions, find out how much he likes for you to work
on that spot.
As I said earlier, the shaft of his
cock does respond to pressure, and there are a lot of
nerve endings when you include all of it. Don't forget
that much of the pleasure we derive from sex is in the
mind, it's psychological, emotional. When a man feels
your warm soft mouth and tongue giving his cock a workout,
feels you trying to suck his balls out through it, sees
your lips sliding down over it until it fills your mouth,
the overall feeling is hard to describe. When you take
all of this into account, the deeper the better girls.
Each man is unique and so is his cock.
Squeeze the shaft and see if some clear liquid pops
up. If it does, dip your tongue into it and pull away.
It will stretch with you and look fantastically erotic
to him. Now, make like you love the stuff. Close in
on that cock head like it was a chocolate ice-cream
cone and take the whole knob into your hot mouth. Don't
just open your mouth and close it around his cock, sliiide
your wet lips down over it until they close around the
shaft just behind the corona. Then gently suck on his
cock just hard enough to pull a little more of it into
your mouth. Sucking on it feels great to him, hold it
there, listen to him moan.
Now, move your head down quickly,
sucking as much of his cock into your mouth as you can
comfortable take. Don't worry, you won't choke so long
as you don't try to take it in too far, we'll get to
suppressing your gag reflex so you can take more of
it in later. Encase the rest of the shaft of his cock
with your hand. Remember the shaft is relatively insensitive
to local stimulation. However, when you close your hand
around his cock you give him the sensation of having
his whole cock encased and that feels great.
Stay there with his cock filling your
mouth. Feel it inside of you. When you get to where
you can take it down into your throat, it can be almost
as luscious as having one in your pussy. It grows in,
uh, on you.
You're going to have to keep your
jaws open wide enough to keep your teeth off his cock.
When you first start out your jaws are probably going
to get tired, it's sort of like sitting in a dentist's
chair with your mouth open. You can get a set of soft
plastic upper and lower tooth caps. If you shop around
the BDSM market, you can find a hinged set with leavers
that let you lock your jaws in the position you want.
If you set it right, you can still close your lips around
his cock. If you can't find them, you can pull your
lips back over your teeth for protection and let your
lips rest on his cock from time to time to relax your
jaws.
Now try the basic fellatio movements.
First, slide your lips back up to the tip of his cock
and flick your tongue against it. Try twisting your
head from side to side, up and down, and around and
around, making sure your moist lips stay in contact
with his ridge as they slide around. Keep sucking on
it, sometimes gently, sometimes hard. While you're doing
this, gently move your moist hand up and down the shaft.
He'll be getting antsy now, wanting you to take it all
in. Don't let him, if he had his way it'd be over in
two minutes and what fun would that be?
Then, moving as fast as he can handle
it (don't let him cum yet), hold your hand against your
lips and slide your mouth and moist hand up and down
on his cock as if you're fucking him. Press your tongue
against the bottom of his cock and let it's head slide
back and forth between your tongue and the roof of your
mouth, watch your teeth. You have to massage the head
of his cock, not just the shaft. When he gets close
to cuming, get ready for his climax. As he nears his
climax, he may try to slide your mouth farther down
over his cock. He wants all of his cock in your mouth.
Instead, slide your mouth back up to the tip of his
cock, working on the corona and sucking on it as you
bring him to his climax.
If there's one thing you should try
to cultivate a taste for it's his cum, you don't have
to swallow it, just let him cum in your mouth. Any time
you've had his cock in your mouth and he's been anywhere
near cuming, some of his cum has been dribbling out
of it and you probably didn't even notice it. It may
seem that I'm devoting a lot of space to this subject.
I am, but that's because it's currently a hot subject
with many people going off on tangents about diets and
using condoms and on and on. I think that his cum should
be considered a part of his climax that has to occur
with his cock in your mouth and that you should cultivate
a taste for it. Although a lot of women like it's taste
and look forward to it, it's not a pleasant taste for
a number of women. However, it's a taste that can be
cultivated and it becomes a pleasant experience if you
just let your self get caught up in his climax and taste
his orgasm, not just his cum.
I love the sensations of his pulsing,
thrusting cock squirting his cum into my mouth and throat,
but sometimes I like to watch it shoot. It gives me
visual images for my wet dreams and besides, it's a
thrill to see the spurting cum. It's amazing how that
stuff shoots out. If you want to watch, you'll feel
it coming with your hand and know when to back off.
If you're fast, you can even try to catch some on your
tongue. However, even though I like to watch it shoot,
that's not necessarily what a man likes for it to do,
not up in the air anyway. Lets face it, the male of
the species' basic function in life is to impregnate
the female. He does that by planting his sperm in her,
not up in the air, as deep and often as he can.
He can control that desire to a point,
but doing so robs him of a deep innate satisfaction
that's very meaningful to many men, they're more emotional
than they let on. He wants your body to suck all of
that sperm out of his cock and swallow it up. Whether
or not you swallow their cum is not a big deal with
most men. They like to see you do it but they really
don't want you to take their cock out of your mouth
until they've finished cuming and started to come down
from their emotional high. When he's fucking you, you
feel that you're drawing him into yourself when you
cum, part of his sexual makeup is a mirror image of
yours and he feels that he's being drawn into you when
he cums. He needs for you to keep his cock in your mouth,
continuing to increase the intensity of your fellatio,
until he cums and his climax lets down.
It's a real letdown for him if you
take his cock out of your warm soft mouth just as he's
reaching the climax that you've both worked so hard
for and jack him off into a wet rag. It's almost like
him pulling his cock out of your cunt just as you start
to cum and finishing you off with his finger. So brace
yourselves girls and keep that cock in your mouth until
he's finished and you've both started to come down.
You really were worked up over what you were doing weren't
you? Besides, that's not a bad choice. Remember, he
can jack himself off and watch it shoot on the shower
floor without any help from you.
I'm not going to try and tell you
his cum tastes like honey, it doesn't. What I am going
to try and tell you is that its taste shouldn't be a
big deal. Sex is messy, you get his cum and the juices
from your cunt all over each other and the bed when
you fuck and it doesn't matter until you have to clean
it up. Most men will grab you, hug you and kiss you
after you've finished giving them head, and they won't
ask you to wash your mouth out first, it just doesn't
matter in the heat of passion. The taste of cum varies
from man to man and from time to time. One man's cum
can taste good to one woman and bad to another. It has
a texture similar to the white of a raw egg. It can
be almost tasteless with a faint aftertaste that I can't
quite describe. It's usually slightly salty and can
be somewhat bitter. There's some evidence there's less
taste if a man has had a vasectomy and there's no sperm
in it, nice isn't it, he's safe and tasteless. There's
also not much odor until it dries and then it's rather
offensive.
You must remember, this is not like
wine tasting where taste is everything, it's sex, and
sex is mostly in the mind. I read a lot of questions
from women about how bad cum tastes and what to do about
it. I also read comments from those who say they love
to take his cum in their mouths and swallow every drop
of it. I think it's the same old story about a vocal
minority opposing something they don't like while the
silent majority either likes it or doesn't care one
way or the other. I said something earlier about women
I know personally who like sex liking to suck cock,
all of them like for their man to cum in their mouths
and look forward to swallowing it. Some say they like
the taste, most say the taste just doesn't matter, they
want him to cum in their mouth to complete his orgasm
and their blowjob.
You do a lot of things when you're
sexually aroused that you might not otherwise do. When
you're giving him head, you're already sexually aroused,
or else you wouldn't have his cock in your mouth in
the first place. To enjoy giving him head You need to
let yourself go and become immersed in bringing him
to his orgasm. This works better if he's done his part
and gotten you good and hot before you start, but not
made you cum yet. The anticipation of him passionately
eating out your pussy after you finish giving him head
will keep your mind off such things as the taste of
his cum and it running down your chin and dripping on
your breasts while his cock is sliding in and out of
your mouth. If you read the first chapter on eating
pussy, you'll recall that the problem is similar to
a man's first attempt at giving you head, accept that
a woman's pussy does taste and smell like honey to many
men after they get into it.
You'll probably let him cum in your
mouth at first because you know it detracts from his
orgasm if he doesn't and you want to give him as much
pleasure as you can. You know it feels good to him and
he likes to do it. Hopefully, taking his cum into your
mouth will not be something you do just because he wants
you to. As you let yourself get caught up in the emotions
of having sex with your man, the thoughts, the anticipation
of having his cock deep in your mouth and throat will
excite you sexually. You'll want his cock in you, you'll
fantasize about his cum shooting into your mouth, not
to taste it but to taste his climax. You'll do all you
can to bring him to climax, eagerly waiting for his
cock to start pulsing and thrusting in your mouth, signaling
the beginning of his orgasm. You'll suck hard on his
cock as it pulses to increase his pleasure, waiting
for his cum to start so you can suck it out and let
it shoot into your mouth. You'll feel his cum spurting
out with each pulse of his cock, taste it as you suck
out the last drops and swallow them and then lick his
cock clean like you were sucking the juice off a popsicle.
You'll may find yourself wanting to keep his cock in
your mouth for a while after he cums until you start
to let down from the sexual high you were on while you
were sucking him off.
If you don't want to start out with
him cuming in your mouth, let him cum in your hand or
onto your breasts - men love cumming on to a girls tits.
Then stick your tongue in it and taste it. Let him taste
it at the same time, he'll do it if he's concerned about
your needs. Dip your tongue in it and then give him
a deep French kiss.
Now take just enough in your mouth
to be able to fully experience its flavor and texture,
swish it around with your tongue and then spit it out.
Don't wash your mouth out, just let the flavor slowly
dissolve as it mixes with your saliva and learn about
its aftertaste. Try taking the rest of it in your mouth
and holding it there, then spitting it out. Once you
get used to having a quantity of his cum in your mouth,
try spitting out most of it and swallowing the rest.
When you've tasted his cum and feel you're ready to
go for it, let him cum directly in your mouth, you don't
have to take all of it the first time, there's only
a spoon full or so, just take some of it in, pull his
cock out, finish him off with your hand and let the
rest squirt somewhere else, you can clean it up later.
As you do it more often, you'll begin to like the sexuality
of it and look forward to taking all of it, it becomes
a sensual thing, a part of your natural desire to participate
in his orgasm to the fullest extent, drawing him into
you as he climaxes.
If you don't want to swallow it at
first, spit it out. Then, smile up at him, take his
cock back in your mouth and play with it for a while.
Gently now, because it's sensitive just like your clit
after you've cum, suck those last few drops out of it
and lick it clean. This says, hey, I want your cock
in my mouth when you cum, I want to suck your load out
of your cock and feel it shoot into my mouth, I just
don't want to swallow it. I bet you'll soon be looking
forward to swallowing it, most women do, besides, it's
not as messy that way. You'll find out that swallowing
his cum can be an intensely intimate act for both of
you, it can be a significant symbolic gesture of love.
Good sex isn't just the pleasure of reaching a climax,
it's when you share each other's climax. It's when your
efforts to bring him to a climax excite you to the point
where you could almost cum, sometimes his cum squirting
into your mouth even drives you over the top.
If you like to swallow it and have
learned to swallow with his cock in your mouth, swallow
it as he cums, otherwise keep it in your mouth until
he's done. If you're sucking on his cock while he's
cuming, you won't have much cock in your mouth, just
an inch or so. You should be able to swallow normally,
just like you were drinking coke out of a bottle. When
he's finished cuming, hold your lips tight around his
cock, look up at him, and slide your mouth off it like
you were sucking the juice off a popsicle, then swallow
whatever is still in your mouth. Take his cock back
in your mouth a couple of more times, sucking and licking
it clean while maintaining eye contact and smiling.
Let him know you like it.
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